I just re-watched this again this week after not seeing it in many years. To give a short summary, a music geek, into classical, meets an attractive woman at a concert and gets a date with her. His work friend, who is a swinger or whoremaster, depending on your perspective, offers to help with tips and to cook dinner for the date. Unlike most films where the sensitive nice guy triumphs at the end, in this film the woman is attracted to the jerk (as in real life), while the good guy ends up broken up and listening to his stereo. As a geek myself, I've always found the film to be painful to watch but also realistic and easy to relate to. Thoughts?