For some help I gave him, a friend offered to buy me the Fleetwood Mac Rumours DVD-Audio disc (that I should have bought back in the day but didn't like an idiot). So I see one on eBay, didn't want to wait for auction, asked seller if they'd Buy It Now. Somewhat negatively phrased answer was like "oh...OK..." (Jeez buddy didn't know I was twisting your arm so much to send you money). Envelope arrives...with a Queen A Night At The Opera DVD-A disc by mistake. Tell seller, seller apologizes, sounds stressed, uncle died, selling stuff off. I say "Ow! I remember my uncle passing away, and yes, a TON of VHS tapes, quad stereo equipment-even a reel-to-reel and quadraphonic tapes. Anyway no sweat, mistakes happen. Now the weird part is, when I got the Queen DVD-A, I looked and I swear it WAS in your items for sale. But I don't see it now. Check your SOLD items and see if maybe someone bought that-if they did, I can ship it directly to them. When you ship the Fleetwood Mac, just credit me however much that cost to ship and I'll send Queen back to your or to whatever buyer you tell me. " seller replies "i cant trust you to send item to another buyer , ( thats crazy ) -- you can return item too me , then i can refund you if item is still in good condition , - sorry buy thats all i can do -----------take it up with e-bay and they will force you to send item back to me for refund , or you can just keep the queen item and leave me alone , then some day , when im sure that you wont bother me , like in 5 weeks from now , then i can list the fleetwood mac for sale on e-bay , your making this a pain and i do not trust you" WOW, is it me or does that seem kinda harsh and/or paranoid? Anyway, should I just return the disc to buyer direct? Better to go through eBay? I was trying to be cool even though it is quite annoying to have to waste my time at the post office*...and annoying to not get the FM disc judging by the buyer's answer...and I definitely do not want to end up out my shipping $$$$. Frankly unless I get the other disc or he sends/credits me postage I doubt I want to send the disc at all. *I had typed "well, maybe this is light enough to send with stamps" but with this annoying attitude I guess I better get proof of shipping and some insurance.